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How To Spot A Pathological Liar

Most of us lie. But, for the habitual liar, they simply compulsively lie for no reason particularly at all. Dating a habitual liar leaves you questioning not just yourself but your sanity. They typically tell you that you are wrong, mistaken, perhaps even paranoid, which all culminates in a ridiculously huge mind fuck. Spotting a habitual liar is actually really hard. They are fantastic at pretending to be kind, lovely funny even. They are everything you want them to be, apart from when you question them.

Most of us lie. But, for the habitual liar, they simply compulsively lie for no reason particularly at all.

Dating a habitual liar leaves you questioning not just yourself but your sanity. They typically tell you that you are wrong, mistaken, perhaps even paranoid, which all culminates in a ridiculously huge mind fuck.

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Spotting a habitual liar is actually really hard. They are fantastic at pretending to be kind, lovely funny even. They are everything you want them to be, apart from when you question them.

Habitual liars begin telling smaller lies that seem to be no big deal at all. Slowly, this will severely damage your self-confidence. They can also change their story multiple times, without seeming phased at all. The only problem is you continually give them the benefit of the doubt, so you just end up really confused.

Signs youre dating a pathological liar

Some people are natural attention or sympathy seekers. You realise that most stories are fabricated to play on your emotions they may lie about being ill or feeling ill and exaggerate illness or other experiences.

When caught in a lie instead of accepting that they are wrong, your partner becomes defensive, invents a cover story in the hope that you will believe it, or lacks any kind of remorse, sometimes even trying to play the victim or refusing to address the matter.

While the grand stories they conjure every day may make this seem far from the truth, you may notice that behind the hype and suspected exaggerated stories they have very low self-esteem. You may realise that they struggle with their image, are not very confident, are intimidated by others, and generally work hard to do and say things so that others will like them, which is why they often resort to telling lies.

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As humans, we err naturally, but not them! They are constantly blaming someone else. So instead of saying that they had to work late, they didn't realise the time had slipped by so quickly or that they underestimated the traffic, they create some story about helping a lost child to the police station, assisting someone who was hurt to the hospital, or even having a family emergency.

Dr Bell said if your partner is a pathological liar then there is also the possibility that they are suffering from a mental disorder such as antisocial or personality disorder, where lying is a common characteristic. Now you can read the Jamaica Observer ePaper anytime, anywhere. The Jamaica Observer ePaper is available to you at home or at work, and is the same edition as the printed copy available at http: We welcome reader comments on the top stories of the day.

They will hide phone numbers under fake names.

They will block you from social media so they can talk to anyone they want behind your back. Never date a pathological liar, because they will lie about little things that there is absolutely no reason to lie about.

They will lie about doing the dishes. They will lie about how much they have drank. They will lie about what happened at work and what time they woke up. They will lie as easily as their heart beats. Never date a pathological liar, because they are such good storytellers that you will never guess they are fibbing until you hear them tell the same story again in a completely different way.

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