Some sims in The Sims 4 may prefer the single life, but others - indeed, perhaps the majority - want a mate. Seduction and romantic bonding both play huge roles in the lives of sims, and depending on how you approach the situation, hooking two sims up may require a lot of work. Even the most social of sims typically will not go wandering out into the world looking for companionship. Without guidance, sims will sit indoors most of the day, only leaving the house to take out garbage or go to work. There are a few ways for your sims to meet other, unrelated sims:. Meeting other sims is, of course, just the beginning.
I see 2 options but! Often the Soul Mate status glitches. Try traveling with your sim to see if that resets it. Also saving, quitting and if all else fails usually time fixes it.
Clearing out the cache files is a good idea to do when your game begins to get a little buggy and Repairing Game is also useful. There is a girl Steve is trying to impress but when I open more options, It just has Friendly, funny, mean, and even mischief. The only reason the "Romance" option would be missing is if they're somehow related. I have a couple with in both bars but they're still just best friends and spouses Anything I can do?
If you are trying for Soul Mate status this can be glitchy. Read my reply a few posts up for some ideas. So both of my sims consider each other soulmates and lovers. They're dating and they are best friends. They both have a want to be engaged to each other Make sure both sims needs are high and that they have no negative moodlets in their moodlet stack.
An angry, embarrassed or sad moodlet, even if out weighted by other positive moodlets will nearly always result in a rejection. I play a married couple - girl has a romantic aspiration the soulmate one and guy has the rich aspiration.
They own a club and they had a little gathering at their house.
I recently joined into a club another engaged couple, so I made the girl interact with the new girl and the guy with new guy, so they would get friends.
After I instructed the girl, I "left" the conversation to manage the guy. It wasn't even 2 min after, when I saw the girls go into sauna to woohoo They were barely friends, probably still aquintances and they had no common traits. I don't get it. And the girl is married, the other is engaged. I don't want them to cheat, but the only way to prevent it is to watch like a hawk what they do?
That would make my gatherings so troublesome My first solution was to remove the new girl from the club and just have the guy. Only it was the new guy and the husband who did it!! And neither has romantic aspiration, but they both have the active trait. The club vibe also wasn't flirty never even purchased that option. Like I said, everything was going smoothly before I joined that couple. I had a lot of gatherings already and my couple interacted with lots of sims by themselves, but never in a romantic way.
There is a game-bug at the moment that makes sauna woohoo a 'friendly interaction'. Until the bug is fixed maybe lock the door to the sauna or just remove it while your club gathers. Ohhh it's the sauna!! It actually was the first time I gathered with a sauna in the lot! It makes sense now. I have a couple that went from good friends to complete blank even though they are a bf and gf now?DATING SIM - Real Estate Agent #1
Their love and friendship bars are all maxed out and everything but it still doesn't as lovebirds, romantic interest, soulmates, just good friends or anything the part for the relationship just displays as blank for both of them Do u know any fix for this issue as I don't get the serenade with guitar option as it doesn't acknowledge the partner as as a romantic interest: This is unfortunately the new way the game deals with relationships now that groups have been introduced.
You will just have to spend some time working on their relationship again.
If you get them to exchange phone numbers this seems to protect the sims from 'relationship culling'. Were you rotated away from playing them when this happened? Thanks for the reply oh that would explain it. When u mentioned spending some time working on it, do u mean resetting the relationship to zero using cheats maybe or deleting and making a whole new sim again?
What I did was I simply created the sim and placed them in another household and then moved her to the current household and didn't really know the new patch came with that issue but yes thanks again for the phone number trick imma try that when I get the chance. I just meant talking and flirting etc with the sim in question.
I don't think you'll need to start again with a new sim if you still really like this one. With some socials and romantic socials you should be able to rebuild their relationship. Of course if you want a new sim I made two Sims with matching traits, but they don't seem to be compatible..
Today they got engaged, woohoo'd and when the guy wanted to make them some dinner at her house she threw him out and got super mad!
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Is this some kind of glitch or just uncompatability? I'd really like them to be together but they're just crazy! Is there anything I can do to fix this?
A recent patch brought in the ability for sims to be thrown out of other sims houses for 'rude behavior'.
Cooking is one of those behaviors tagged as rude. A sim now needs to have the Always Welcome trait for them to be able to do whatever they like in another sims house. So this will be why your sim threw him out.
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As to them being compatible, well there isn't really an attraction system in the sims although some sims just don't seem to particularly like each other. Consequently, you need your two sims to get together on a regular basis. Not every day, necessarily, but every few days at the very least. There are a few different ways to maintain contact:. Perhaps the most important piece of advice in all this is to use common sense. The Sims 4, for all its wackiness, utilizes the basics of building and maintaining relationships.
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I some times like to add another sim in my world though, because often times a lot of the sims in my game are already married or dating someone. So, kind of wierd I mean have romance with someone of another sex.
Any ways I have been trying to get babies with a hansome guy in sims 4, not really working. In my experience the only time the romance menu doesn't come up is when the two sims are family members. So, yes, it's probably a bug. Try him out on a different female and see what happens, I guess?
I don't think sims have a set sexual preference, but I could be wrong. Well I think I got a bug or something. I got to create multi-generation family, so oldest son of my founders is now teen, I found him a nice piece of other teen girl, they have one common trait so they're having fun with themselves.
My problem is that said teen son of name Gilbert have a friend with relations "Friend" named Alexander and he can romance with him, but said nice girl named Alisa with relations "Good Friends" does not have Romance menu at all! Is little Gilby gay or something? Should I make mother to make a burger cake and make coming-out party? You might want to try chatting with sims she knows on a computer instead. She should be able to chat with any sim she's at least met.
I'm not sure how much Loner applies to online interactions, but I bet it's less stressful overall.
Might make building up to a higher relationship easier - and once a sim gets past a certain hurdle with other sims namely getting them up to at least friends , I don't think hanging out is quite as stressful an ordeal.
I've been playing for about 5 hrs now and because my sim is a loner she has to spend time with herself or she gets stressed Trying to form a relationship is the most stressful experience!!! I wouldn't call it "the hard way". Literally within 3 hours of starting to play the game my Sim had already WooHoo'd with 3 other Sims. Hope it proves helpful in the future. Most of the romancey stuff is pretty commonsense - don't be a jerk and you'll do fine - but fiddling with the emotions system can make conversations a bit dicey.
This is a great Sims 4 guide, haven't had time to play recently with school starting up and such, definitely will try out your romance guide the next time I get a chance to play, it's just so time consuming. Thanks for sharing this, awesome hub! Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. HubPages and Hubbers authors may earn revenue on this page based on affiliate relationships and advertisements with partners including Amazon, Google, and others.
You have a relationship. This is the easy way to get things rolling, and not nearly as fun. Via social interactions between sims. This is where it gets tricky - and this is where the article comes into play.
Making Connections Even the most social of sims typically will not go wandering out into the world looking for companionship.
There are a few ways for your sims to meet other, unrelated sims: Send them out onto the street. Your sim can - and sometimes will, if left in the right spot - strike up conversations with these passers-by.
This is something of an iffy prospect, but it sometimes works, and is most likely to be successful during the evening when sims are home from their jobs.
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On Christmas Haru and Kai can become your boyfriend if you accept his feelings. Daichi does not confess as he is still getting over his last relationship.
You can increase your Relationship with Kai by giving him a gift on his birthday. Daichi will also confess in Spring if you watch him play basketball. You can also choose a boy to give chocolates to on Valentine's Day. Note that if you start dating someone else, your other relationship will end. On your birthday you can choose a character to hangout with. They will give you a gift and your Relationship with them will increase.
Dates are a great way to increase your Relationship. Like gift giving, you can't go on dates without talking to a character for a while. Once you have enough successful dialogues with the character, a message letting you know that you can now go on dates with the character will appear. Daichi is the only character who will start out dating someone else.