Perhaps this is a self centered posting, but I truly recommened the journey within…. This is how we grow, heal, and even change the world. By knowing ourselves and addressing our weaknesses. Lack of self awareness is catastrophic in relationships and society in general. And I agonizingly yearn for just a little understanding. Comment if you can relate.
Moreover, because of their unconventional or idiosyncratic perspectives, many INs report feeling like misfits or outsiders. INs who type as other Enneagram types e. Nines, for instance, are depicted by Riso as shying away from uncomfortable ideas so as to preserve their sense of inner peace.
While Nines are in many respects content to float through life, Fours and Fives are more demanding. The 16 Personality Types: The Enneagram Type 4: Enneagram in the Narrative Tradition. While I agree about minimalism in the service of time; it is also about attention or thinking.
Having a clear and uncluttered mind is definitely another benefit of minimalism. I feel I take a systematic as the gentleman mentioned above but also artistic approach as it relates to clothing and outward appearance.
It seemed so difficult to decide between T and F. Your tests helped, and are finally, the only thing that did. I also have had a very hard time deciding between 4 and 5. I am still confused about it. There are many different kinds of 4 and 5 if you look at the subtypes. Also, from book to book there are many different descriptions. The sexual five, in many descriptions, is a lot more like a four, as almost every writer says. Some fours do a lot of thinking and enjoy being analytical, according to Jaxon-Bear.
Underneath that, they are somewhat lost. In my dreams, I am always lost — somewhat like Kafka — trying to find a landmark of some kind.
I wanted to ask you if you are more like yourself in your dreams? Or are you less like yourself? The part where you said that INs are very alienated by Se culture is quite true.
I always think — why would they do this when we have all the good museums right here in New York? I also have tactile and olfactory ability. I can literally smell and feel. I tested as a 4 but I can definitely relate to some of the above mentioned subject matter.
I have become more of an observer in my 40s, much like I was as a teen. I engaged a lot with people as a counselor for ten years then stopped to pursue more creative endeavours and to acquire this knowledge about society. I like it but hate worrying over money. I have a lot of insights to share but have had too many combative run ins with society that I am now content to sit back and watch it go down the toilet. I care but not at the expense of ruining my own inner peace unless a true human I find.
Ah, I just love this! You always have a way of writing exactly how our mind frame works in both how it manifests in real life situations and the mind and emotions that drive us to be that way in a way that is clearly defined and enlightening. I feel so refreshed….
A good personal example is art related. I retired early and decided to take up art. Having never before made art, I performed significant research for over 6 months before ever attempting any art whatsoever. My friends teased me about doing research instead of practicing art. However, 6 months afterwards I was selling art in galleries. Your example of a business plan taking one year to perfect sounds fiscally responsible to me. As in my art example, we may use a larger percentage of time in the planning phase but we save a lot of time by being better informed or prepared for the implementation phase.
I always gain a new bit of perspective when I read your articles and books. I wonder if the subtype Sx is what dictates the wing. However, this may be a selection bias. With a heavier lean in UR, my gaze dives deep into the UL.
It would be difficult not to see the overlap of Jungian Theory, Enneagram, and John Holland codes among other works. Does anyone know if someone has attempted to combine them into one model?
As always, great article AJ. I much prefer a clean, clinical environment; I find that cluttered areas detract quite heavily from my mental energy — energy invariably reserved for my job which requires a fair amount of focused attention.
I therefore try to ensure that my environment is configured in a way which requires absolute minimum interaction and if feasible is navigable with as little conscious effort as possible. Your type analyses tend to be very INxx focused.
My biggest issue is that Im selfaware enough to realize Im being overwhelmingly obnoxious but I dont posses enough selfcontrol to shut myself up. Growing up were told to fit in to be like everyone else.
I live near to Komrom. Love to have other people be touchy feely toward me but am painfully aware of keeping my own personal distance learned in childhood Maybe. In high school we had to choose one more beside the english. You dont need people skills Then have fun living up in a cave and realising your plan goals.
My clients stick around to do their personalrelationship work vs. Although Im not sure. I am awesomeWas a good read some things my be overstated but the flaws are there in a smaller or bigger amount. I am an INTJ type. Youre taking your intuition as a right as being a part of your makeup. Oh also its your fault for not stopping them. In the name of making things interesting they might start an argument over something they dont even care about and then keep it going with points that dont make any sense in an attempt make you feel wrong.
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I truly can relate when you say powerfuldestructive and useful in a limited number of situations about ENTJ.
But you never move to do ANY of them Its always tomorrow tomorrow tomorrow. Your friend sounds like an ENTJ to me. TBH Im pretty quiet and many say too reserved. I wish this said something really brutal that was spot on so that I could add it to my personal development.
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You arent better than any other person. Ive learned to listen a bit and make comments on that so they think Im actually listening but I really forget about even that the next day unless its interesting. And this is just the most booring ever I mean yes I dont want them Contrast the usefulness of absolute and relative dating techniques to hurt.
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A good thing to remember is not to dwell on the bad parts and actually put some action to solving it. ENFP here and I must admit that there may have been a time when I was a kid that the given flaw applied to me I dont think the whole no personal space thing does anymore. By the way Im so yes Im a kid but Im about the most mature and reasonable kid you will ever meet. Br I think some INFPs could agree that when we live outside the treehouse or the castle in the sky the world seems completely bleak and depressing.
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Even then the problem itself and pointing out the problem to the person isnt really the target the solution to the problem is the focal point. Did the ESTJ you know recently find out about a new team politician or religion theyre into Alright well then get ready to be beaten into submission until you love it too.Sx/Sp Instinctual Variant Overview- The "Attraction Assassin" of Dating - Enneagram