I've met a man I'm very intrigued by and he was born on July 21st. I'm trying to get a little insight, through astrology, into what makes him tick. Looking forward to any response from someone who may know something about people or a person born under these two signs. I am the Chinese Horse. I am a lady of contradictions.
For instance, the tendency of this cusp to become self-indulgent and insensitive to the feelings of others may hurt the crab, and if things get too ugly, a Cancerian will sting with words that are thousand times harsher! Also, the need for a Cancer-Leo to be the center of attention all the time, and leading this highly-sociable lifestyle, may instill jealously in a Cancer lover. Pisces is the last sign of the zodiac chart and therefore contains a little bit of all the zodiacs that come before it.
Being ruled by the water element and governed by mutable qualities, those belonging to this zodiac can transform into any shape and size as their lover wishes them to be.
Not that this pair of fish doesn't have a mind of its own, but because it believes in selflessness and growth of the ones that are important, negating the needs of self. Remember we said that this cusp needs someone who can be the source of inspiration, the pillar behind the success? Pisces is the one! Yes, the moodiness of the both of them may cause conflicts that might include some hurtful and insensitive exchange of words, but these conflicts will only pave way to kiss and make up.
The one thing that a Cancer-Leo cusp needs, is to find a balance, a sense of equilibrium so that the constant swinging may be controlled to a certain extent. And there is no one better than a Libra partner who could help this cusp attain that point of balance. This air sign is known as the sign of balance and harmony.
Dating a cancer leo cusp man
A Libran is a highly peace-loving sign with the gift of weighing the pros and cons of two extreme situations and bring about a neutral, peaceful, just, balancing point.
No wonder it is symbolized by the scales! Like our cuspian, even Libra is highly romantic and inclined to materialism to a certain extent.
Also, both are charming and sociable.
The advantage that a crab cum lion has when it comes to dating a Libra, is that this sign can handle the fluctuations of this cusp efficaciously. Problems may arise when the escapist side of Libra to not instigate any conflicts upsets the highly upfront and expressive Cancer-Leo. Nonetheless, the politician of the zodiac chart knows how to handle the hypersensitiveness of the crab lion.
A Libran's laid-back and non-rigid attitude complements the ambitiousness and unscrupulousness of this cusp. Though we wouldn't call Capricorn totally submissive and docile, it still has the potential to team well with a Cancer-Leo. Yes, we know that the goat is stubborn, somewhat traditional, but it is also ambitious and focused.
Perhaps this would work well to give our cusp the firmness it lacks in everyday life, especially when it comes to decision-making. A Capricorn is a great leader, and this union would do well to bring forth the fine leadership qualities that a Cancer-Leo possesses, but rarely implements due to the swinging tendency.
Although highly dependable, loyal, and disciplined, a Capricorn can also be quite fussy at times, behaving unexpectedly in a given situation. Because both of them can say that they have 'been there and done that', an understanding is likely to be established in this aspect. The goat is confident otherwise, but a shy socialite. The patience and maturity of the Capricorn would serve well when our cusp behaves in an unruly manner. We won't call them perfect all the time, but these two definitely have a lot to learn from each other, and grow in the process.
What brings these two together is the need to help others, to achieve something greater than their existence. The water-bearer seeks eccentricity and wants to live in a life that is free of monotony. The need to socialize, interact, and the eye for creativity is what clicks initially between them. While the company of an Aquarian wouldn't do well to give our swinging sign a sense of stability, perhaps the two will just swing along from one adventure to the other.
The reason we call this union fun, yet not so promising is because of the inevitable clashes in the long run. What is most important to a water-bearer is freedom! The tendency of our cusp to be way too dependent and protective may make the water-bearer feel smothered in a relationship.
This air sign isn't the kind to take any nonsense, but would rather go further away in search of an adventure. If an understanding is established in this aspect, these two are pretty much the partners in crime, fun, laughter, and more! The signs discussed above are those that have the ability, patience, willpower, and tact to handle the volatility and intensity of a Cancer-Leo.
This cusp is all about power, dominance, and 'I-know-it-all' mentality. On the other hand, vengeful, freedom-loving, and unstable signs are also not quite apt.
Yes, we have included Aquarius in the list, but with a disclaimer. Another aspect that must be kept in mind while determining the relationship compatibility of cusp signs, is to conclude what is their dominant sign. Taking Cancer-Leo cusp as an example, one must read about the personality traits of both Cancer and Leo to see which side dominates them.
Broadly, it is said that those born at the initial dates of the cusp belong to the former sign, while the later dates of the cusp phase makes one more of the latter sign.Cancer/Leo ?? The Cusp of Oscillation
I have a friend on that cusp too and you simply described him exactly! Man he's super hot!
I am a 31 year old female born on July 21st. I dont know what men are like and reading the other posts im not too happy with the stereotype that is being spread about this cusp. Maybe its where im deeply into self growth but i dont see being moody all the time and emotionally messed up. You are definetely either sign, getting someone who is very promising in the bedroom. Just my two cents worth! I am a 45 year old female born July 23rd the cusp in anyone's astrological "book". I have often noticed by the responses I seem to elicit from other people that they definitely don't understand me.
But, the reality is that I am exactly what I appear to be. I'm very domestic cooking, sewing, love children, etc. Unlike true Leos, I don't have a need to be in the spotlight or be the leader, but I do want to be respected and appreciated for my intelligence and for my contributions to team projects. I DO have an unbelievable memory remember some conversations word for word from years ago. That memory is another reason that I have such diverse talents because it gives me the ability to learn just about anything.
I am the latter I am not as gregarious as a typical Leo but I do laugh a lot and communicate well like a Leo , and I am extremely sensitive to criticism like a Cancer. I recently met someone through eHarmony, have been communicating for a while, and just found out that he is a Gemini could have figured that out even if I hadn't learned his birthday.
Although I have never given astrology much thought, there are too many things that are dead-on to ignore. So, I'm believing that a Leo Woman and Gemini Man can be a great combination intellectually and have fireworks in the bedroom I'm trying not to be possessive and to give him his freedom, and he seems to be VERY considerate of my feelings.
He sure is a lucky guy to have found me Leo pride: I work with a Cancer-Leo. She so happy, so gets on my nerves a lot. When I'm in a happy happy mood, I can stand her, other than that, she's annoying to me. I am a July 21'er!
Positive and Negative Traits of the Cancer-Leo Cusp of Oscillation
I am learning more about the cusp and recently got into getting my chart read. The duality makes more sense than any of the things I had read previously about just Cancer.
As far as relationships, my biggest obstacle is getting people to truly understand what I mean. I sometimes feel like I must be speaking another language. Things that seem so clear to me, seem to be rocket science to others.
I don't think I'm moody, I just think some days I need a break. Hopes this help in your relationship! I don't really don't understand that. I think she may actually have told ME the truth about the 22nd, but wants the 2nd off from work or something. She's not really moody! She's just annoyingly happy.