You know that random Instagram pic of a shirtless hunk you were just drooling over? When I say that my boyfriend is a fitness model, there are three reactions I usually get: How did that happen? Most people immediately want to see pictures. It might seem like some super elusive thing, like dating a celebrity, but we just met in college.
Usually these sexy men of our dreams are movie stars, athletes, musicians or other famous faces. What happens when you find a man in real life that is dead sexy? Is dating arm candy all we dream it will be?
Here are the pros and cons of dating a handsome and hot as hell guy: Of course, this is the obvious place to start.
This model is getting real about fit men who are attracted to plus-size women
When your man is dead sexy you get the pleasure of having one hunk of sexy man eat at your side all the time. His great looks, plus your great looks, equals some incredibly adorable children! Of course we all love our children and they are adorable in our eyes. He is ever so hot, and even better he has a great personality. He is the total package, and he picked you.
This man could be with anyone, yet you are the one he finds special. You are the one he wants to be with. Having a hot guy choose you over all the prospects he has can make you feel amazing.
Sure women look, lots of people look. But, that hot guy is all yours. He is all yours.Women Prefer Muscular Men - Is It True?
Sure he gets loads of attention because of his looks. But, sometimes that attention comes with perks. He catches the eye of plenty of people, including bartenders, bouncers at trendy night clubs, and hostesses at nice restaurants. All that sexy can make it easier to get a drink, to get into a hot club, and to get a good table at a great restaurant. At first it can be fun to show off your sexy man. Eventually it can get more than a little irritating how much other women can and do fawn over him.
And, no you are not just imagining it. Pretty people get hit on in public.
Dating fit guys
They get flirted with, people strike up conversations with them. No matter how secure you are, it can get annoying having women hit on your man unsolicited. Sure, you know you are with him for more than his looks. But, other people may take one look at your hottie and assume that is all you look for.
I work out every day, but how a woman is on the inside matters more to me. I stay fit for myself. It makes me feel better.
I've met very fit women who I wouldn't think of dating,because of their personality, addictions,etc. Looks come and go, but your character and who you are as a person generally doesn't change. My gf isn't "fit", but she's still sexy to me and I trust her completely. She has great character and a nice personality that everyone loves. I workout daily including lift weights to stay tone. I'm the type to work on every muscle of the body so I don't neglect leg or butt day.
Most of the women I date are not into working out or if they are, it is inconsistent or light workouts.
What It's Really Like to Date a Fitness Model
Some chubbiness does not turn me off to an otherwise cool woman. I am not a gym goer, I got a little padding here and there on my body and I have dated my share of body builders. I briefly dated our national body building champion and his type of women were like me, with a little meat on the bone.
My friend is like you. She thinks if a man is super fit he will only date super fit women. That is a common mistake women do, as if a tall men would only want a tall woman, or a blond man would only date a blond woman. No that's utter nonsense I am a much bigger gal then you and my boyfriends have been fit, and the relationships lasted a really long time.
I always hated looking at myself in the mirror next to them but I sure as hell didnt mind being with them lol. There are not a lot of fit women out there to go around, especially the type of women you linked This is just like your leagues question Women usually just go to classes to burn fat and stay toned a little bit to get rid of the chocolate or bad food they ate that week just to like maintain that ever delicate balance and never-ending battle with weight, not muscle or being toned and that's pretty much most guys can ever realistically expect That leaves a lot of girls that are average, even overweight, able to realistically date better looking and in-shape men But it doesn't work the other way around, men need to raise the bar because things are not "equal", they have to do more overall to attract women.
So really, them being fit and good-looking Now if the guy is very good looking, very fit, and has that laundry list of criteria that other women desire too At that point your main competition is other women, and THEN that's when you might need to be fit or toned, or basically not average or overweight. Last edited by Ninjainpajamas; 24th September at No, it's never really crossed my radar. A few pounds here or there isn't unhealthy. At first glance I find a highly toned, strong muscle definition body to be unattractive on a woman.
While a sign of health, it's very masculine. To each their own.
I like thick curvy girls way more than skinny or toned ones. They just appear more feminine to me. Not to mention hugging them being all squishy is awesome.
My last boyfriend was hot and pretty fit, and said he preferred a woman with some fat on her, as "women should be soft". He was very turned off by the gym rat look in women, thought it made them look masculine. I'm pretty fit myself - more fit than he is, but I have plenty of curves - and he was always trying to fatten me up a little.
I didn't give in to that, but it was a nice change from your typical guy. So yes, there are hot, fit men who aren't looking for the gym rat type.
I find that it depends on what your goal are working out.