I read most of the answers. There are really nice advice from different approaches. There are people who have dated the siblings of the friends, and it's turned out well. There are far more people who have dated the siblings of friends, and ended terribly. First it depends on your age, and the age of your friend's sister. If you're in high school, I'd say don't do it.
One thing I will note about the romance is that it is a slow-burning one, but considering Bram has waited ten years to make his move, I'm sure we can all make it through a few more chapters until the fireworks are set off. I low key hope some of the secondary characters in this book end up getting their own stories because I need the tea on their love lives and I think they deserve happily-ever-afters too! Jan 11, Jenny - TotallybookedBlog rated it really liked it. Oh, how we loved Bram when he went headfirst into woo mode to finally try and win over Julia, but the side-splitting moments between the buddies and the banter between Linus and Bram really did hit the spot.
Talk about passion and romance! This guy had it in spades! Whilst we did love so much about this book, there were moments we became frustrated with Julia and her pragmatic ways. Honestly, how much convincing did she need about Bram. A blind man could see he was the one for her, and for too long she let her head rule her heart, much to our annoyance and made the story drag a little.
This book is everything you could wish for in a rom-com. Jan 06, Ilsa Madden-Mills added it. Dec 19, Ri rated it it was amazing. If I ever doubted this author and her ability to write before I sure don't now. Not that I ever really did.
Should You Date Your Brother/Sister’s Best Friend?
Yet, I keep thinking to myself she cannot stay perfect but after this book, she might have elevated to that status. She took it to a whole new level with this story. However, there was something new to this book. There was a vulnerability in it with both characters. I think that is why I adored Bram the way that I did. He wasn't alpha sure he was confident but not in a smug way , nor did he have a mouth so filthy that it would take a lifetime of soap to clean out.
Instead, he was genuine and true. He was resolved in knowing that Julia, Jules to him, was the finish line. I adored seeing him unabashed in going to any lengths to show him that. Julia, sweet lord this girl. I adored her and her quirky characteristics. Together they truly were the perfect match. I didn't need certain colors to match them up to know this.
I loved how they interacted with each other and tried to trick the other in confessing things to catch the other in a lie. This book isn't on the steamy side and didn't have it until much later in the book so keep that in mind if you are looking for something with a lot of sex.
Sometimes the anticipation is much better than reading every other page of steam and that is true in this case. There were so many humorous moments in the story. I won't give spoilers but can I just say that I will always think of this author when I see or hear about a dragon?
In true fashion, this author has woven her magical unicorn spell over me and I am enchanted. There is a reason she is my go-to RomCom author. Dec 17, Kahea rated it it was amazing Shelves: Who else winced while reading steps one through three??
Cause I sure as shit did. I loved Julia and Bram. Julia is that compelling mix of shy, thoughtful sassy and snarky with a good dose of an extremely observant wallflower most of the time. And though it was all kinds of slow burn, the chemistry between them was intense, so when things finally stopped being slow, it was all kinds of smexy goodness and just showed that they were a perfect match in every way.
Thankfully, they both figure things out and loved where they ended up. From the way the story played out to the interesting situations that occur throughout the story to Julia and Bram themselves, this was a great story. But, the cherry on top of this sundae belongs to three of the supporting cast of characters. Roarke, Rath and Linus were kind of everything. Bram was one of those heroes who jumps off the page and into your heart almost from the start. While there was no doubt the man was a bit misguided, his heart was in the right place and he was dedicated to winning the heart of his 4.
I did like her and I got that she was pretty much an introvert, but and while highly intelligent she lacked a lot of common sense social skills. While they spent some time together with Rath being his best friend and her big brother, their interactions were limited and she always seemed to barely tolerate him which I believe was actually her trying to hide her attraction to him. I loved how during the course on her interviewing him for her matchmaking skills, he made sure she understood everything he would put into a relationship and everything anyone who was involved with him could expect which amped up the attraction between them and added to the slow burn of their romance.
Told from dual points of view, I feel that readers will gain great insight into both of these characters and their motivations for the way they live their lives and approach their relationships.
This book would not have been the same without the supporting characters and I feel confident that at some point we will see Rath, Roark, and hopefully Linus again in the future. Review copy provided for a voluntary review. Bram Scott was at times a bit obnoxious while others the perfect freaking gentleman.
It was those moments where he opened his heart that had me swooning. I didn't particularly like her 4. I didn't particularly like her not following her heart nor acting on her feelings for Bram.
She was closed off at times yet she was completely obvious. This book was steamy and at times had me pulling my hair, but I loved the moments of shared intimacy between Bram and Julia so much! Meghan Quinn once again proves she is the queen of romantic comedy! Dec 15, Dana rated it it was amazing. Bram and Julia are one of my number one book couples!!!! I have just added a new BBF to my harem Bram Scott has taken the coveted spot at the very top!!! Feb 04, Alaina rated it liked it Shelves: It's about a forbidden kind of romance, best friend dating your sister kind.
In it, you will meet Bram and Julia. Their bantering was cute.. Well, okay Julie was the frustrating character. Their romance was meh. Nothing really stuck out to me but I ended up still finishing this book.
I don't know what Bram saw in Julia.. I don't understand why she was acting the way that she was in this book. Again, frustrating - super super frustrating. Overall, it was cute and predictable. I'm glad that I'm done with it. Jan 03, Kennedy Ryan added it.
Arc provided in exchange for an honest review 3 stars "I have a stupid-as-shit crush on my best friend's sister. But this book did have funny dialogue which made me give it an extra star. And the writing was good. Personally i just needed a lil more from this book. More drama, a more climatic scene.
This book was just and i hate to say this predictable. Bram Sco Arc provided in exchange for an honest review 3 stars "I have a stupid-as-shit crush on my best friend's sister.
Bram Scott 33 has had a crush on his best friend's little sister, Julia Westin 31 , since his college days. He's tired of being alone and wants to finally have a relationship with Julia. He finally gets his chance to get close to her and show her he's ready and capable for a relationship. But things don't go according to plan I really disliked that view spoiler [he had over one-night stands. He was a major whore even though he had feelings for Julia hide spoiler ].
But the humor and writing made me finish this book. So I applaud the author for that. Dec 19, Erin Lewis rated it it was amazing. I fell hard and fast for Bram, he was so swoon worthy and he really laid it all on the line. My heart was palpitating as he put himself out there when he admitted his feelings for Julia.
If you're in high school, I'd say don't do it.
If your friend's sister is more than a year younger or older than you, then definitely don't do it. Age differences are tricky enough without it being your friend's sister. Obviously, this is a bit different if you're both out of high school. Second, how does your friend feel about it?Ask Shallon: How To Date Your Brother's Best Friend!
If he's against it, then I wouldn't. If he's sort of neutral, I probably still wouldn't do it. If he's for it, then you might be okay. Overall, it's risky, tricky, and possibly not wise.
If you do choose to, then definitely talk with your friend before hand. Surprising your friend by suddenly dating his sister without warning would not be a good idea. His sister was never really on your radar, unless she was tattling on you both to his parents or begging you both to play tag with her.
After all, how would you feel if he wanted to date your sister? Is he over-protective of his sister? He might simply know too much about you and your predilections to not feel at least a little uneasy at the thought of you dating his sister.
You share your most intimate secrets with your search engine without even thinking: All of that personal information should be private, but on Google i Nothing wrong with it but for me, personally, it's just too close to social circle. I have done it before and always, the brother gets involved and I can't be bothered with it.
It can lead to complications in friendship if things don't go to well. Especially if you break up and you meeet your mate So I don't date my best friends sisters no matter how attract they maybe.
Just can't be bothered with hassle and it's far too close with social circle. I personally got options anyway. I approach tons of women anyway, and I rather keep close social circle as nothing more than friends.
My brother and I are very close and tell each other everything. About a year ago, I started to develop feelings for a close friend of my brother. We still talk and things are fine. No, as long as her brother trusts you and you treat the sister well.
That means - no bad behaviour, no disrespect, ring when you say you will and be where you say you will. You don't say how old you are. If you are teens, then you need to be VERY careful indeed, and if you are in your 20s then you still need to be good to her - if you want to remain friends with your mate - but at least you will be adults.
Or a brother for that matter. Her eyes alone led me to engraving a picture of her in the back of my head, whike her sweet energetic side whixh came about when she got into conversation was attractive.
The other option was to just walk away mainky because i find myself spending wayyyy too much when we go out, and acting as a safety net thing i think her partner should be doing…. You share your most intimate secrets with your search engine without even thinking: All of that personal information should be private, but on Google i Brooke,me personally I have 2 rules no messing around with best friends sisters nor dating friends exes…but thats just me.
Now in answer to your question,yes it is ok to date your best friends sister if you know you that your intentions are good. I would chat to your best friend first just to clear up any awkwardness and see how things go just as a heads up. On a personal note I have 2 close friends where one dates the others sister and its fine.
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Brooke thanks for the request and good luck sunshine. There's nothing wrong if you date your friend's Sister as long as your friend is ok with it. So yeah, go for it, make it happen and don't ruin the friendship which is more important than anything. Is it alright to date your best friend's sister?
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